So you are going to get married to the love of your life and you want to write a beautiful, simple wedding vow for your ceremony because you know the memory of those deep, heartfelt words will last for a lifetime. These days you don’t have to use the same traditional vows that you have heard a hundred times. It’s becoming more and more common for couples to write their own unique yet simple wedding vows. Here are 3 tips to help you write your own romantic and memorable wedding vows…
Tip #1: Don’t Try to Impress People
Some people try to write a wedding vow that is impressive and mouthful. They feel this will make their wedding ceremony more special. But the truth is that it’s completely the opposite. It will just make your words sound insincere and fake, so your wedding vow won’t have any impact on your loved one or even the guests.
So what should you do?
Simply speak from your heart. It doesn’t matter if you use very simple words that you speak in your day to day conversation. It’s the feeling in those words that matters. Because “what comes from the heart, reaches the heart.” OK, this brings us to the next idea…
Tip #2: Just Close Your Eyes and Speak from Your Heart
Here’s a great way to write a hearty romantic wedding vow easily: Go to a peaceful place so that your mind slows down and is relaxed. Then close your eyes and imagine that your partner is standing in front of you smiling at you. Look into his/her eyes and remember the beautiful memories you’ve had together. All those days that you laughed and cried together. Feel how much you love him/her with all your heart.
Then, as your eyes are still closed and you still see your loved one in front of you, ask yourself what you like to tell him/her right now… at this very moment? No one else is here. Just you and him/her. So tell him/her whatever your heart desires. When you try this, you’ll find yourself expressing your feelings in a very deep and heartfelt way. These words will make the perfect wedding vow for your wedding. These are the words that your partner will remember and cherish for the rest of his/her life.
Tip #3: Read Some Romantic Wedding Poems
Another great way to get your creative, romantic juices flowing is to read beautiful wedding love poems. After reading only a few poems, you’ll get inspired by their deep, romantic language and will find yourself coming up with beautiful sentences that will be perfect for your wedding vow.
You even may get so inspired that you find yourself writing your own unique poem that you can use as your wedding vow! Well, there you have it. Just try these 3 tips and you will be amazed by the results. Wish you a wonderful wedding and a beautiful life ahead.